oh dear god....

[burntcopper]

I've just had a call from the bloke who asked for my number a couple of days ago - have agreed to go cinema with him tomorrow - and that's persistent. I didn't answer his text from the other day. Am now considering banging my head off the desk because of certain factors. One, he's a townie, and not just any townie, one who wears sports gear as day wear. I have deep-seated Kappa slapper prejudices. The other... I have seriously low self-esteem when it comes to blokes and dating. I've never been on a date before. My usual recourse to blokes is to pick them up when on dancefloor and I don't have to talk to them, just snog and grope. My longest relationship ever has been 8 hours, and that was because we fell asleep after sex. Normally it's wham, bam, thank you ma'am. Plus, talking. Help. I have no problems talking usually, and I'm considered a complete flirt (I don't mean to, it just happens even when I'm not interested) but... date! Aaaargh!

Comments

[lazulus]

*pets heather*

Dating is good, lovely girl. Just relax and be your usual sparkly self and all will be fine. Of course, if he turns out to be a twat... smile nicely and walk away!

See you next week!

[soulstar.livejournal.com]

*huggles* You'll be fine... you'll see a film, for free with a bit of luck *g*, and like Jaq says, if he's a twat, walk away.

But you aren't just going cos he's persistent, are you? There are some other qualities? But anyway, at the worst, you could look on it as a practice for dating someone better at some point. Which you will do, I have no doubt :-)